Archive for 03/07/2010

Another thing we can do for peace

A very important and urgent thing we can do for peace is stop judging - others and ourselves.

When we judge others, it is simply our projection - we are projecting parts of ourselves onto others, parts we have not yet welcomed and loved.

And if we judge people, it might cause them to suffer, it might cause them to deny who they are, to suppress parts of who they are,  it might cause them shadow - all of this is just negativity.

And because we are all connected and everything is energy, it will cause global negativity.

We might judge people unconsciously, we might think it is right to judge them, maybe it is part of our education, maybe it is part of our culture. We each need to do the work to become aware of where we are judging others and let go of judging them - allowing them to be as they choose, even if we do not agree with them. When we go into a garden, there might be plants or flowers we do not like. And what we do? We let them be and maybe we make a comment on a flower we like.

Love is freedom

And as we welcome people for who they are, we give ourselves permission to be who we are - magnificent.

What you can do if your life isn’t working

There are Laws in the Universe and one of them is positive attracts positive. This does not mean putting up a happy face, it is something else.

Maybe you tried many thing to change or improve your life, and maybe they did not work that well or they did not work completely.

You see, all the negativity is stored in our subconscious mind in the form of programs. If we are to become positive, we need to let go of those programs at a deep level and this will bring us on a spiritual level. It does not require to substitute the subconscious programs which do not work, the new understandings will emerge from the ever present sea of wisdom we are always connected to, at the spiritual level.

So what you need to do is commit yourself to do the work to release the negativity, and your whole life will change incredibly.

You can do it

Dealing with difficult people

I was talking recently with a person who was experiencing problems with a colleague.

She said she had tried many things - tried to talk with the colleague, done a course in confidence, a course in assertiveness, but nothing worked. The colleague was still not respecting her and she was back feeling not confident and insecure. And in this climate, she said, she could not afford to lose her job.

The first thing to say is that confidence is not putting up a facade to be strong or behave in a certain way. It wouldn’t work, it wouldn’t last, it wouldn’t be genuine confidence. Confidence is feeling centred and good about yourself, free to be who you are and do what you choose, no matter what others say.

And sometimes assertiveness in dealing with difficult people does not work. They might deny, they might not respect your truth or feelings, maybe they are not ready to recognize their behavior and take responsibility for it, or they just don’t see it. It is necessary to do a more profound work, working at the subbtle energy level.

In the Universe everything is energy and one of the laws states that positive attracts positive. The more positive you are, the more good things you attract in life. If, on the other hand, we are not feeling good about ourselves, if we are insecure, if we are angry, if we have negative subconscious beliefs, we might attract what we do not want. The more we let go of all the subconscious negativities, the more good things will happen.

As you change, as you heal yourself, your whole world will change.

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