What we experience in life is part of a divine purpose - what seems at first difficult or a drama, even abuse, needs to be embraced with a deeper spiritual purpose.
Our mind is only creative and what we think about is what we get. When we have a negative belief about ourselves, we will create in our life negative events and circumstances. The underlining divine purpose of the negativity we have created is to heal ourselves, to go back to wholeness - it is our soul trying to connect us back with our wholeness, it is our soul trying to teach us to Love ourselves.
When we take responsibility for it and let go of blame, anger and resentment and even manage to thank whatever happened as a gift on our journey of spiritual growth and healing, we can heal.
Our main purpose in life is become what we already are, and in order to do that we just need to release, turn it over to God and allow.
We are whole and all is well.