27/10/2010 by Piercarla Garusi.

We are living in such extraordinary moments of planetary change that everything we have suppressed, everything we have not healed or resolved from our past or even past lives, is going to come up, and we will need to deal with it.

Many people are unconscious of it, but they will find themselves facing problems and difficulties which come from their inner world. There is no more time for kidding ourselves, for not facing our issues, there is no more time for false confidence, no more superficial relationships, no more ‘fake it until you make it’, Life will bring us back to what we need to heal. We need to be fully honest with ourselves and committed to heal ourselves until we are done. And when we make that decision, we realize we are not alone, the whole Universe is on our side.

I see this in my life. I have been brought back to solve very difficult and painful experiences and even though at times it has been extremely difficult and I didn’t think I could manage, I know this is the only way. Each one of us is tested to heal and choose the Light, and we are helped and supported, more than we could ever imagine. The world is an out-projection of our subconscious, of all our pains, memories, beliefs. It is holographic - as within, so without. The thing is we think we are alone, the ego wants to hold on and try to figure out things or be right or to protect ourselves. We need to surrender and let go of all the negativity. What has helped me is this sentence: ‘Please God, take over’ and something will happen. As we heal inside, our outer reality will change and we will finally be able to be who and what we truly are and live our purpose.

The only way out is in.

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26/10/2010 by Piercarla Garusi.

You might have heard people say one needs to be flexible, to be open, to trust what others say, to try out new things, that we need to improve ourselves, etc. - yes and no.

There might be some truth, but the most important thing as I mentioned in the previous post, is that you trust yourself. You are, as each person is, divine; and we each have inside an inner compass to tell us what is right and what is not for each of us. We need to listen to that, always.

Furthermore each person is magnificent. There is so much criticism and conformism in society and many people fall into the trap to try to be someone they are not, maybe because they want approval, they want to be accepted and loved. But if we try to be someone we are not, we are going just to suffer. There is nothing wrong with you and the most precious gift you can give to yourself is be yourself and follow your heart. Give yourself that gift.

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26/10/2010 by Piercarla Garusi.

In order to be well, to be happy, to be at peace, to be successful, we need to be aligned with who and what we truly are. If we are aligned, we are centred, we are balanced, everything works and everything is easy. If we are not aligned, we hold in mind beliefs, limitations that cause us to go out of balance. Our main job is to let go of everything that causes us to be out of balance, to be out of who and what we are and reconnect with what we are and All that Is. This for all areas of life.

Sometimes, if things do not work in our life, we look for answers outside of ourselves, maybe we urgently need answers because we suffer. And we look for people who might be able to help us. Advices could be related to healing, to starting a business, to relationships, to many things. People do the best they can, but they are not us and their advices might causes us to go further out of balance. What works for one person, might not work for another. We need to be very careful in what we listen to; we need always to tune in within ourselves and listen and feel what is right for us. And only then, follow it. 

The reason why we look for answers outside of ourselves is because we do not know what we are and we think answers come from the mind, that we ’should’ know the answers, that we ’should’ know how to manage our life - this is always followed by beating ourselves up for not being smart enough, for not having sorted our life out yet, for not being independent already, etc. It will only cause us pain. Answers do not come from the mind, but from a Higher Place. It is the place of all Wisdom to which we can connect when we let go of wanting to know the answers, of having to know the answers and we simply say ‘I don’t know’. Then an intuition will come to us, generally when we are doing something completely different, often something physical, maybe cleaning or gardening, during which we do not think and we are relaxed.

Remember: We don’t ‘have to’ do things if they do not feel right for us, in any area, and there is nothing wrong with you if you haven’t managed yet to be successful for example - keep healing yourself to become whole and all wisdom will be yours. 

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22/10/2010 by Piercarla Garusi.

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If you are interested in re-publishing any of the articles or if you would like me to write an article for your magazine, please contact me on info@pgcoaching.co.uk.

Thank you and take care.

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20/10/2010 by Piercarla Garusi.

Sometimes we are not aware of the great things of our own culture until we leave the country and move abroad, then we miss them. Also, when we move abroad we see perhaps with clearer eyes the good things of the new culture.

I would like to start by saying something has always struck me about the UK - the sense of fairness. I believe it is something very precious. I feel it is embedded in the culture and often people are not aware of it. It is something I truly admire and we can learn a lot from.

And I would need please your input with regards to a culture you are familiar with, maybe your own country or a country where you live/you have lived.

Please send me an email with your thoughts to info@pgcoaching.co.uk, and I will add it to the blog entry with your name. Thank you

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20/10/2010 by Piercarla Garusi.

Love is not about being sweet.
Love is not firstly about being kind.
Love is not firstly about caring.
Love is not firstly about giving.
Love is firstly about respect and freedom.

It is about wanting the other person to be happy whatever they wish to do.
It is about respecting another person’s boundaries - physical, emotional, spiritual, mental, sexual.
It is not simply treating the other person as we wish to be treated.
It is about treating the other person how she asks to be treated - and to know how we wish to be treated we need to love ourselves.  

Love is about letting go of wanting to change the other person.
It is about letting go of wanting the other person to do what we want.
It is about letting go of wanting to control in anyway the other person.

Love is about not disapproving of the other person.
Love is about giving them some approval, even if we do not agree with what they think/believe/say/do.
Love is about healing ourselves and be whole.
Love is about loving ourselves first.

Have you chosen to love?

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19/10/2010 by Piercarla Garusi.

I was watching on the television a few days ago a piece of an interview in which they were expressing the need to re-create in society a set of moral rules to which everybody ’should’ abide by in order to bring about morality and ethics.

It would not work at all. Rules only bring pain, limitations, control.

Truth and Love are about freedom.

If we want to bring about a positive change in society, it is not done by placing a set of rules, it is done by the individual commitment to integrate and heal our shadow, to let go of negative beliefs, thoughts, rules, emotions, feelings, memories, pain, limitations, etc.

And as we do so, not only we become more loving toward ourselves and others, but we connect with the ever present sea of Universal Wisdom from which we can find all answers. We would so know how to behave and what to do in any situation - we would need just to ask.

We do not need a set of rules to tell people to be kind or loving or compassionate or how to behave, but we need the individual committment to honesty and to work on ourselves so that we heal ourselves and become what we already are.

Love is all there is

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19/10/2010 by Piercarla Garusi.

Please visit: http://piercarla-paintings.co.uk/52.html

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17/10/2010 by Piercarla Garusi.

Maybe we came to believe that in order to be spiritual we have to be:

- kind
- compassionate
- loving
- do certain things
- behave in a certain way
- …..etc.

But each ‘have to’ only brings pressure on ourselves. It does not work, it is a limitation, it brings pain.

When we instead reconnect with what we are, which is done by undoing all the limitations contained in the mind - thoughts, beliefs, emotions, memories, feelings, ego wantings - we find peace, we know who we are, we know what we are on this planet to do, we love ourselves, we automatically become more loving with other people, we lead our life in a way that helps other people. 

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17/10/2010 by Piercarla Garusi.

I am looking for places where to exhibit my paintings. Do you know of any?

Here is my paintings website www.piercarla-paintings.co.uk.

I am very grateful for any advice - you can email me at info@pgcoaching.co.uk.

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